Thursday, July 14, 2016

A Community of Contrast



The Sherman Park Community is a community of real “Contrast” representing urban America in both the best and worst of what “urban” means.

When at it’s best it is a melting pot with Black, White, Asians, African, Middle-eastern, Indian, Pakistani, Native American, Christian, Jews, Muslim and Hindu. As for the worst, it is a community with more crime then would be found in most suburban communities. Stolen cars are a regular part of the community dialogue on the community bulletin board, as is the conversation of homes that are vandalized and robbed. A home, on my block recently burned and the original debate included a dialogue about the house being torched by vandals until it was revealed that a poorly installed piece of equipment caused the fire.

As a members of the Community, we have an obligation to look out for one another. Not just blacks looking out for blacks because “black lives matter” but blacks looking out for whites and whites looking out for blacks and Jews looking out for Christian’s and Christians looking out for Jews and Muslims looking out for Jews and Jews looking out for Muslims because we all depend on one another for peaceful and safe coexistence.

Recently, a member of the Community posted to the local Community Bulletin Board a picture of a car speeding down a street at a speed so dangerous that had the person lost control or if a child would have stepped into the street, certain tragedy would have resulted. This is a common daily occurrence. The person who posted the picture suggested that all of the neighbors post pictures of cars driving to fast for residential streets. Neighbors have followed the example and started posting pictures on the Community Bulletin Board and the result is that cars have slowed to more reasonable speeds.

We are all responsible for the safety of our community; ‘silence’ supports the offenders while those who ‘speak out’ help prevent crime because consequences are assured.

We live in a “Nose Neighborhood” to quote the police poster. If nothing else people drive more slowly because they don’t want the embarrassment of the community knowing they are speeding down the block. When we speak out the police have the ability to investigate with support from the citizens. It is a safer community when the police and the neighbors work together.

Last night I was awaken when at four in the morning police cruisers parked in front of my home with lights flashing. When we looked out onto the street the police had a man seated on the curb as they searched his vehicle. Even in my community it is a rarity for a cruser to park in front of my home with it’s lights blaring in the early morning hours, for that matter, at any time of the day.

A little later, I learned that the young man sitting on the curb stays just two houses to my north. It turns out that when most people were in bed, he was trolling the streets looking to cause someone trouble.

He decided to chase a health care worker headed to work at 4AM for the early morning shift at Froedhert Memorial. Not only did they give her chase but they rammed this woman’s new car at what she estimates was 70 mph as she tried to allude them. These two big young men damage her car but more importantly they terrorized her. The story was told to me by the victim soon after the event. This lady I’ve known for a number of years. A wonderful woman supported by family and a good neighbor. As she told the story, she broke into tears and began to cry as she recalled the vivid moments when she thought she was going to die. The terror she felt this morning she will feel for sometime to come.

The two young men stay in a home rented from a friend and I called him to report the event. I tell this story for all to hear because I believe we all have an obligation to look out for one another. We cannot tolerate behavior that causes our neighbors to feel victimized or terrorized. Who knows? Someday it could be one of us at the hands of some bully looking for a victim.

In every event were people are victimized there were neighbors who stood by silently. Genocide cannot occur without people knowing. Imagine being in Syria today and not knowing that your neighbors are victimized by a brutal regime. It starts with the few who are silent and builds until only a few are speaking out.

If we are going to post pictures of cars speeding down the street, surely then, we should post pictures of cars involved in the commission of a crime.
Please note that the front end of the car is bashed in the result of ramming our neighbor. Fortunately, the person who was rammed did not loose control of her car because the number of innocent victims could have multiplied had she lost control. The police concluded that the owner of the car was not involved in the crime itself and so the car was “surrendered” to the “custody” of the owner. Don’t misunderstand, the car was not stolen and apparently there is a relationship between the owner of the car and the driver involved in the crime.

Most people are open to forgiving an action done in a moment of stress or crisis and that maybe the case in this incident. That does not mean that there should be no consequences for the offender. In fact, today I learned that this is not the first offense and there have been other experiences in our neighborhood when people living in the same home of the same description have been observed putting other neighbors at risk in a different way. Then the landlord was also called and the police involved as well.

The landlord takes these kinds of issues seriously, as well he should. I hope the senior member of the household were these two men stay takes the behavior with an equal amount of seriousness. In the event the senior member of the household is being victimized and has no control over the behavior of his family, let the offender know that we are “nose neighbors” and are now watching even sniffing around for evidence of inappropriate behavior.

We cannot tolerate this illegal, immoral and un-neighborly behavior. Yes! Courage is risky! But we must be courageous and willing to report this kind of conduct to the proper authorities. I am not a vigilantly. I do not advocate action by individuals. It is never appropriate to act on our own. The only appropriate action is to call the police. If it is an emergency call 911 and if there is no immediate danger, call the non-emergency number at District Seven.

My hope is that the offenders in this recent incident will join the peaceful members of our community and enjoy the safety of our neighborhood. If not, then let them be aware that we are a courageous group of neighbors looking out for one another. Here is the picture:

The vehicle is green and
one of the side windows is broken and covered with plastic.

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